Though it is offensive the following video portrays the kind of attitude people have about the marriage ceremony. I take issue with the attitude.
Yes, Marriage is great, and it’s been popular since the beginning of human history, but the ceremony is a relatively recent invention. Not the celebration of the marriage but the ceremony, the part where vows are exchanged. Marriages were contracted in antiquity by the parents. When the bride and groom united officially it was accompanied by festivity not solemn ceremonies and demanding vows.